Higher Self Café v7: Transcendent Self-Interest in an Age of Abundance

Continued from Higher Self Café v6: Wolfram, Langan, and Tolkien Discuss Reality


Have Mark Satin invite Maslow, Ayn Rand, and (later) Adam
Smith
to the Higher Self Cafe  to explore “transcendent self-interest” as a new organizing principle for society in an age of abundance

ChatGPT Prompt

The Higher Self Café hums with the quiet energy of intellectual discourse. Mark Satin, ever the idealistic host, sits with Abraham Maslow and Ayn Rand, trying to moderate what he hopes will be a groundbreaking discussion…


1. Act I: Cordial Beginnings, Building Tension

Satin:

Pouring tea, his tone warm and optimistic.
“Thank you both for coming. I’ve brought you here to explore an idea I believe could reshape society: transcendent self-interest. In an age of abundance, when survival is no longer our main concern, can self-interest evolve into something greater—a voluntary competition to leave a legacy that uplifts others?”

Maslow:

Leaning in, his voice steady, his words deliberate.
“It’s already happening, Mark. My studies of extraordinary individuals show that once basic needs are met, people crave meaning. Self-transcendence—going beyond oneself to serve a higher purpose—is the natural next step in human development.”

Rand:

Sitting upright, her voice sharp but calm, with a practiced precision.
“And yet, Abraham, you speak as if this so-called transcendence is somehow separate from the individual. You would have people sacrifice themselves for some nebulous ‘greater good.’ Let me remind you: rational self-interest is the only moral compass. Anything else leads to the destruction of freedom.”

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Self-Harmonization: A Grand Unified Theory of Socialization

TEDx Talk given 4/1/2024 at the The Friedman School of Self-Differentiating Leaders for a Meta-Modern World

[Opening: A Personal Confession]

When I was deciding on my career, I felt like I was being torn in two directions. On one side was Pat, my logical, analytical side, saying, “You should be a physicist. Physics is structured, precise, and universal. It reveals the hidden patterns of the universe and lets you solve problems at their core. It’s practical and clear—a perfect career path.”

On the other side was Chris, my intuitive, relational side, whispering, “You should be a social worker. Social work is about people. It’s about connection, healing, and building communities that thrive. It’s deeply human and incredibly meaningful.”

Pat saw the world as a system of forces and equations. Chris saw it as a web of relationships and emotions. For a while, I felt trapped, like I had to pick one and leave the other behind. But then, something clicked: Pat and Chris didn’t need to compete—they needed to collaborate.

That realization didn’t just shape my career; it reshaped the way I understand the world. It led me to sociology—and to what I now call self-harmonization, a grand unified theory of socialization that applies at every scale of the system, from the internal workings of the mind to the relationships between people, and even to our interactions with artificial intelligence.

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Higher Self Cafe, v2: Frankel vs Maslow/Bowen/Hegel

Updated version of Maslow, Bowen & Hegel Walk Into Cafe

In Act II, Victor Frankel is the barista. He comes by with their drinks and accidentally engages them around the idea of mutual self-determination in relation to what was already discussed

ChatGPT Prompt

Scene: A cozy, dimly lit café on a stormy night. Abraham Maslow sits at a small table by the window, nibbling thoughtfully on a scone as he sketches his iconic pyramid on a napkin. Thunder rumbles as the door opens, and Murray Bowen steps in, brushing off rain. He spots Maslow and, intrigued by the half-finished pyramid, walks over.


Maslow:

Glancing up, grinning through a mouthful of scone
Bowen! Just the man I needed. I’m refining my hierarchy here, and you should see what I’m adding at the top. Gesturing to the faint sketch of “Self-Transcendence” atop the pyramid It’s the summit, the true peak of human motivation.

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Maslow, Bowen & Hegel Walk Into Cafe: Tasting the Higher Self (v1)

Create a humorous dialogue where Bowen, Maslow, and Hegel sort through the nuances of the relationship between Self-Transcendence and Self-Differentiation.
Start with Maslow eating a scone and sketching his pyramid on a napkin. Have Bowen enter and get enmeshed in an argument, which wakes Hegel at the next table who irritably intervenes

ChatGPT Prompt

Scene: A cozy, dimly lit café on a stormy night. Maslow sits at a small table by the window, nibbling thoughtfully on a scone as he sketches his iconic pyramid on a napkin. Thunder rumbles as the door opens, and Bowen steps in, brushing off rain. He spots Maslow and, intrigued by the half-finished pyramid, walks over.

Maslow:

glancing up, grinning through a mouthful of scone

Bowen! Just the man I needed. I’m refining my hierarchy here, and you should see what I’m adding at the top. gesturing to the faint sketch of “Self-Transcendence” atop the pyramid It’s the summit, the true peak of human motivation.

Bowen:

scoffing

The summit? Maslow, you’re always so eager to climb past the fundamentals. What about boundaries, self-definition? If people go chasing transcendence without first knowing who they are, they’re bound to get lost. gestures to the lower layers of the pyramid These are survival needs, but survival isn’t enough. It’s about self-differentiation.

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