Happiness

    The happiest people in the world
        are those who can enjoy doing good for those they love
            and are appreciated for it

    The more loved, the greater risk
        The more loved successfully, the greater happiness

Love & Hate

    Love is a state of positive idealization
        engaging emotions & intentions
            for the perceived good of the beloved

    Hate is a state of negative idealization
        engaging emotions & intentions
            to destroy the detested

    Mature love sees both good and evil
        and pursues the former while destroying the latter
            in the same person at the same time

Sanity

• Aligning emotional community, reasonable reality & intentional character
• Integrating loving spirituality, faithful rationality & hopeful sensitivity
• Enjoying purposeful humanity, humble individuality & honest sexuality

Yesterday’s philosophy is today’s psychology and tomorrow’s pathology
    and often vice versa

Sexuality

    The purpose of sex is to develop a family: spirit, soul, and flesh.
    Sex metaphors all of life. Not vice versa.

    Pleasure is to happiness as sugar is to food.
    Sex is to love like pleasure is to happiness.

    Men fight.
    Strong men fight and win.
    Real men fight evil and win love.

    Women nurture.
    Beautiful women nurture love.
    Real women nurture strength and love virtue.

*An apothegmary is a collection of apothegms: small sayings embodying big truths